This guide’s here to help you navigate online chats and connections on The Cliq Connection. Whether you’re looking for a mate or something more, we’ll help you understand what’s what in the digital world and social cues for people with disability.

Reading the Room (Even When There Isn’t One)

When we’re chatting online, it’s a bit different from having a yarn face-to-face. Here’s what to keep an eye on:

Message Timing

• Quick replies: Usually means they’re keen to chat
• Few hours between messages: No worries! They might be:
  • At work or study
  • Having a feed
  • Out and about
  • Taking time to think about their response
• Days between replies: Might mean they’re not as interested or need more space

How They’re Writing

Showing Interest:

• Asking you heaps of questions
• Writing proper sentences (not just “k” or “yeah”)
• Using emojis 😊
• Sharing stories about their day
• Keeping your chat streak going

Not So Keen:

• One-word answers
• Taking ages to reply
• Not asking questions back
• Giving short responses to your detailed messages

Starting a Yarn

Not sure how to kick things off? Here’s how:

1. Use the app’s conversation starters

   • “What’s been the highlight of your week?”
   • “Seen any good shows lately?”
   • “What’s your ideal weekend look like?”

2. Share something about yourself first

   • “Just finished watching [show name] – reckon you’d like it!”
   • “Had a ripper of a day at [place/activity]”

Keeping the Conversation Rolling

Do’s:

• Use the app’s AI prompts when you’re stuck
• Share pics and GIFs that match the chat
• Talk about shared interests
• Give detailed responses when you can

Don’ts:

• Spam messages if someone’s not responding
• Push for personal info too quickly
• Send just “hi” or “wyd”

Taking Care of Yourself

Remember, it’s totally fine to:

• Take breaks when you need them
• Say you need time to think
• Be honest about feeling overwhelmed
• Use the app’s safety features if needed

Real Examples from The Cliq Connection

Good Chat Example: